Tugboat was supposed to testify today. I stayed back with the kids. I don't know about your lawyer, but mine has two nannies for his kids. So, they took The Bird and The Boy yesterday when we both had to be in court. Not wanting to avail myself of their services unless absolutely necessary, I cooled my heels in Manhattan today. (A side query: Why did every elementary school in the tri-state area decide to go to the zoo today? Bastards.)
Anywhoooooo, ALL DAY I waited. Not one word. Finally after I knew regular court was over, I couldn't contain myself any longer and I called Tugboat. He picked up with a hushed voice and said, "There've been some interesting developments. I'll fill you in later." Click.
Long, involved, tense story that is still making my temples hurt, short, there is an offer on the table. A good offer. Not great. Good.
Our lawyer has come up with an element that would greatly improve the offer in terms of future earnings, but isn't a cash-right-now sort of thing. It hasn't been approved yet, but is very interesting.
We're going to mull it over tomorrow while the orthopedic surgeon blows the jurors' minds.
they will offer you a structured settlement, which is a wise for long term planning. MAKE SURE you are looking at the net number to be paid to YOU - after WC payments and lawyer fees are deducted. Secondly, listen closely to your lawyer's advice. He should keep it on even keel for you with all the emotions flying around.
Posted by: Peggy Lucas | June 06, 2007 at 10:29 PM
I am cautiously optimistic.
Did I tell you that I was a juror in a civil trial last year? It was a medical malpractice case that involved a death (so serious stuff) and since that experience is so fresh in my mind I can paint a very vivid imaginary picture of what is going on in your courtroom. It was tense being a juror for a case like that, and I imagine that you and Tugboat are wound pretty tightly from all of this. Here's hoping for a speedy resolution that gives you what you guys need.
Posted by: Jess | June 07, 2007 at 09:02 AM
I'm hanging on every post. Truly.
And I've got every single appendage crossed.
Posted by: mothergoosemouse | June 07, 2007 at 09:59 AM
Keeping fingers and toes crossed for you and your family.
Good thoughts being sent your way :)
Posted by: Josie | June 07, 2007 at 01:25 PM
Here from www.redstapler23.blogspot.com. I've spent time in your archives and seriously I hope this is resolved for you quickly. This amount of stress is phenomenal and the fact that you've kept your humor and your sanity enough to write posts about it and to actually laugh at some of the shenanigans speaks volumes about you.
I'm hoping for the very best outcome possible and that you are awarded or offered what you and TB need to be able to live your lives in peace and without worry over his medical needs.
Posted by: Andrea | June 07, 2007 at 04:02 PM